How To Save Your Relationship Before It’s Too Late

Are you on the verge of a separation? Regardless of whether you are on a boyfriend-girlfriend-level relationship, or married, separation is the same serious issue with both types of relationships. It could because of a falling out, a loss of love for each other, or another individual becoming muddled into the mix. Whatever the reason for the impending split, there is always a solution for this separation to not happen at all, and it starts with the letter “D”. Yes, dating. If you get a few dates just right between the two of you, then you can kiss even the mere thought of separating good bye. To follow are a couple of great tips to ensure that you get those crucial dates just right.

Tease Him

Show him what he may be missing, if he ever does want to separate with you. It may not be what you have on your physical self, but it can be what you can, and do offer to the table. Show him that he will regret it if he ever does separate with you.

“Fatten” Him Up

This just means to that you simply have to execute simple, subtle, yet very effective methods which eventually up a great day, or a great evening. Treat him or give him things he normally does not get from anybody else, except from you. Make him meals, visit him at school, work, or little things such as those. Give him massages, and very “good” ones, at that (sensual??? hint, hint!). Then, ask him if he does want to go out on a date. It would be next to improbable for him to say no after days or weeks of building up that date night.

Stop and Go

Pinpoint whatever it is you feel he doesn’t like, because that, or those might be some of the reasons why he may be falling out of that love for you. And do go full force on those things he does like. Just sacrificing a little bit for him will pay off with your gain in the end.

Show Him A Date to Remember

Once you finally get him out on a date, make it as memorable as possible, with a night that he will never, ever forget. He’ll be saying I love you in the morning more times than you may be able to count, after that night.

However, as this video from Oprah explains, sometimes you may just be trying to stay with the wrong guy, so it’s important to figure out if he really is Mr. Wonderful of if you are settling…

Are You Marriage Material?

brideAre you in a long term relationship but not quite sure if he is ready to settle down? Maybe there are still questions in his head that you have yet to answer. He may be wondering if you are the one. Quell his fears by showing traits that men would like to see in their future wife.

How to Show Him You Are Marriage Material

There are certain characteristics that men look for in their future wife. Maybe you are not displaying these traits enough that is why despite the length of your relationship, he has yet to propose. Here are some things that men look for in their future wife:

Trust

Men like to be trusted whenever they go out. Avoid thinking that he is always out with other girls to cheat on you. Maybe he just wants to hang out with friends. He is not always lying to you trust him so that he can trust you as well.

Give Him Space

A man needs space every now and then. Avoid clinging onto him all the time. Give him space so that he can grow to become the individual you have always wanted him to be. Let him be himself and hang out with his friends every now and then. Once you’re married, you’ll have an eternity with him.

Understand His Insecurities

There will be times when your man will be insecure about his finances, work, and other things. Learning about his insecurities will help you understand him more and avoid any issue that might bring his insecurities to the fore.

Support Him

Most men hide their insecurities and problems but it does not mean he does not need support. Support your man even if he says there is nothing wrong doing so will show him that you will be around when times get rough.